Have you ever faced a situation where you wanted to shut something in you but just can’t do it. Harder you tried to suppress a feeling in you, more you suffered. This may have happen with you in your life at some point or the other.

     Consider you are trying to stay away from a person you love for whatever reasons, you will find it difficult. If you truly love somebody its near to impossible. It’s like a Quicksand, more you struggle to get out from the pit faster you’ll drown. There’s no way you can get out of the quicksand, and struggling just make it worse.
      So how can somebody escape from the Quicksand? Maybe you can’t escape it with your own.You need external help. Say you get a rope or a stick thrown at you by someone as a gesture of help. You have to grab onto that. It’s better to be alive than to nurture your ego, that you are just fine by yourself.

            So whenever you feel like shutting down your feelings, don’t do it abruptly. Give some time to heal. We are humans not robots. Feelings should be treated wisely. Otherwise they can bring chaos and many unanswered questions you may not want to deal with.



1 + 1 = 1

What can you think about the title? Maybe I’m being too optimistic but that’s what I wish for myself. I want someone in my life with whom my heart will resonate. Two hearts but functioning as one. I want to know every bit of this Someone so that I can create a heaven for that someone and that will surely be a Haven for me. I know it’s like a fairytale or too poetic to be practically possible,but.. hey why not to expect happiness. I think it’s a basic desire. It’s not like I’m asking for million dollars.

As a person I can’t change the world but I can change the world for one person. Actually I’m being very selfish here by saying this. I’m only seeing my happiness in this. I know 1 + 1 = 1 is pretty rare to find. But you have known some couples, right? Don’t you envy them. I do. I get jealous sometimes. I’m ready to give my 1 but only if there’s another 1 who is also willing for this, without this condition nothing will make sense.

I know boundaries and personal space play a crucial role in relationships. Violating them may sometimes lead to serious trouble. Resonating your heart with your partner doesn’t mean to push yourself on one another. It’s pure understanding. It’s an art. Very few can handle this. People get so obsessed with one another they start doubting each other for no reason, I have seen that happenning to people.So getting possessive over somebody can lead to downfall in relationships.

So what’s the key to perfect relationship?  There isn’t a key. There are combinations which are varying with each passing day.You have to change the frequency of your heart according to your partner’s if you want to stay resonating !


Late night dilemmas

Uhh…. It’s been long time. I’m becoming insomniac or what? I was not like that, I have known some night owls but I was sure that I’ll not be one of them. But here I’m now.

Why this is happening? Maybe I think too much. Mostly it is career related. I’m about to finish my masters. But I’m in doubt if it’s the right thing to continue. Maybe I think too much. But it’s worth a recheck, right? You should do what you love , Or atleast love what you are doing….pfff…. I think I have still got some time so that I can focus on first part of this famous quote of Steve Jobs.

They say money is everything, yes it is true in many levels. But money should also bring happiness. Our society,school,family expect from us to GET A JOB. Lesser they know is this GET A JOB mentallty is killing so many dreams.

         Robert Kobiyashi in his book ‘Rich Dad,Poor Dad’ has primarily focused on breaking this GET A JOB phase of one’s mind. If you want to succeed you have to find your own path. I seek help from my friends on this matter. Whenever I’m in dilemma. I go to them. This is because while discussing things I rediscover my problem and that helps me a lot to look upon the things I once didn’t consider. That’s a good start, right?

By doing this at least I know where I stand. To know where you stand ,to know what is feasible to you are very important things in life. It only pushes you in forward direction. So talk to someone close to you.The individuals with genuine concern for you always lead you to positivity. You just have to keep faith in yourself​.